Several of my male friends have asked me occasionally what they could give their lady to keep her happy, and I’m always surprise that they don’t know the answer to that already. A lot of guys think with material gifts they score incredible high but they soon get disappointed when it becomes obvious that the gift wasn’t satisfactory and then you begin to ask “Baby what do I give to make you happy?”
Here are five gifts you should give to keep her satisfied and happy:
THE GIFT OF TIME
Time is an important gift of life that should be treasured and used wisely. When we share our time with someone it proves they are important to us. Nobody likes to waste their time especially on useless ventures. When you spend time with your partner you send a message across that they are important to you and you value their presence in your life. Stop with the “I’m very busy” excuse. Create time to check up on them by calling or sending a text message, that wouldn’t cost you much time, so spend your time on your partner today.
THE GIFT OF CARE
This is such an important gift that many guys take for granted. Most guys take up the nonchalant attitude of not caring especially after the girl has said yes but truthfully that is when the real work begins. Nigga you’ve got to keep up, you have to genuinely care, you should not dare fake it, most girls can smell falsehood like rats smell rotten meat. You have to show empathy towards her plight and try to understand her feelings, don’t disregard it and think she would get over whatever she is going through with time, you have to show you stand by her. How much do you care about her general well being and how do you show it. You have to package your gift of care carefully, it matters.
THE GIFT OF TRUST
This is among the first gifts you offer her. A relationship built on mistrust is going to sink. Do not create reasons to mistrust her or give her a reason to mistrust you. Be open and truthful that way nobody gets hurt.
THE GIFT OF A GIFT
This is especially very sweet and effective when you use your initiative and create a beautiful surprise. She mustn’t keep hinting and whining about the sane thing until it dawns on you that she wants that new bag or phone or whatever. Learn to read her and understand her needs (not her wants).
THE GIFT OF SPACE
Irrespective of the fact that you’re both an intimate couple, each one still deserves their personal space. You are a couple doesn’t mean you should be together 24/7. Give her space, don’t be all over her, forming Mr possessive hero; she’d feel chocked up and would want out, don’t turn the relationship into a cage.
I hope this article has helped someone today, next time you are thinking of what to give your partner remember the gifts above.