Happy Wednesday my beloved olives and welcome to another episode of Single Woman Palaver. This week the lovely Aminatawa asked a question (link in the comment section) and here is my reply.
I actually have to confess that I am as confused as Aminatawa is when it comes to this particular Palaver oh. Although I’ve never met a guy who assumed I was in a relationship, I always meet the bold ones who would ask you straight up and even if you were in a relationship, they’d try to change your status to available lol. We might have to ask the guys why they jump to such conclusions though, so guys please tell us in the comment section, how do you know a girl is single and available?
My own issue is why do most Nigerian men get freaked out when a girl expresses her feelings for them, it’s like they can’t handle it and you are probably right when you said they won’t respect the woman. I heard men love to do the chasing so probably that’s why they won’t value a relationship they didn’t initiate. But it definitely doesn’t apply to all men, some can be cool with a woman chasing them and might even love her for being bold, different strokes for different folks.
So ladies would you take the bold step and approach a guy? And guys would you be cool with that? Air your opinions in the comment section and keep a date next week with Single Woman Palaver. I love you all.


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